Making Money From Home: How I Made Money While Transforming My Wardrobe…and YOU Can Too!

Making Money From Home: How I Made Money While Transforming My Wardrobe…and YOU Can Too!

How I Transformed My Wardrobe and Made Money in the Process

I worked in corporate America for 25 years. For most people working a corporate job, there are certain expectations about how to dress. Even if there is a business casual dress code, the word “business” is still there for a reason. So, when I exited my corporate career I found myself with a closet full of clothes that really reflect my new entrepreneurial lifestyle. But, since I left a high-paying job and was essentially starting over, I couldn’t exactly justify buying a bunch of new clothes. That’s when I remembered this cool app called Poshmark. I had shopped on Poshmark plenty of times. Typically for brands like Athleta that I didn’t want to pay full price for. But I hadn’t really considered selling on the platform. That is until I started to stare at all these clothes that I really wasn’t wearing anymore. But I had a hard time deciding whether to get rid of certain things because maybe I would wear them again. So, here’s the process that I followed and how it transformed my wardrobe….all while making money from home. 

Closet rack filled with clothes

Shopping My Closet

I started to put together new outfits with what I already had. Mostly I would take something that I hadn’t worn in a long time, and paired it with a newer piece to try and give it new life. If I didn’t like that old item anymore, I put it in a pile to sell or donate. 

BTW – If you’re looking for tips about how to shop your closet, check out the 6 Ways to Shop Your Closet Guide

Piles of clothes on the floor

Decision Time

Next, I had to evaluate what items would actually be worth selling and what could be donated. When I first started out, I didn’t really know much about how to research what an item should sell for. So, I just basically used the condition and what I paid for the item as a guide. If something was in good condition and was a little more expensive, I would sell those pieces. This was the first step to making money from home. 

outfit mirror selfies

Experimentation

Around this same time I was shopping thrift stores a lot more often, because my schedule allowed me to hit the really good sales on Thursday mornings at my local thrift store. I started trying out new looks that I would not have been able to wear to the office. It was very liberating! Sometimes a new piece would work out great and other times not so much. I knew however that I could always resell what I didn’t want anymore. Eventually this helped encourage me to choose better quality items for myself. Not only did I finally convince myself I was worthy of high quality clothes, but I also knew I could resell for a decent price. 

Rainbow Ikea bag filled with packages

Selling & Buying

After about a year or so of selling my old clothes and buying new clothes, I had completely transformed my wardrobe. I now own more ripped jeans than I ever have before and love to wear them with fun t-shirts and Converse sneakers! But then the real magic happened! Once I started keeping track of what I was selling and what I was spending on new-to-me clothes, I realized that I was actually either breaking even or MAKING money in the process. This is something that I never thought was possible. I didn’t realize how easy it was to sell my unwanted clothes and that there was a huge second-hand market for any “new” clothes that I would want. Now, whenever my husband or my kids want to donate or throw something away, I always research the top second-hand sites to see if it is worth selling or not. 

If you are new to shopping second hand, I suggest checking out these blog posts to help you get started: 

ziplock bags filled with Legos

Not Just for Clothes

My son is now 10 years old and is into video games. We’ve gradually been selling his old toys and legos and he gets to spend that money on Fortnite V-bucks or whatever other video game he wants. And….it helps to declutter!

My daughter has a school trip to Europe coming up. It’s quite expensive. But my husband and I believe in giving our kids every opportunity to travel that we can provide. So, I signed her up for the trip and we started to brainstorm fundraising. Coincidentally, we also just cleaned out our garage, loft, and office spaces. We had a lot of extra stuff that we didn’t need. I listed it all on various platforms and have been putting the money toward her trip. Items included things like an old knee scooter, dog crate, books, and more. 

My daughter wanted to go to the salon and get her hair dyed pink. This was going to be an expensive process and wasn’t really in our budget. So, I told her to clean out her closet. We were able to sell a couple of in-demand pieces and pay for most of the cost of the professional stylist.  Now both my kids know a method for making money from home!

Getting Started

When I look back on some of my first listings when I first started selling stuff out of my closet 2 years ago, it’s cringe-worthy. I’ve learned so much since then. If you have a family vacation you need to save for, or you kids’ school trip, or maybe just be able to go to the movies or out to eat a couple of times a month, there is money waiting for you in your closet. You just need to learn a few basic things to get started making money. That’s why I’ve created the Beginners Guide to Turning Your Closet Into Cash. It’s a quick FREE guide with simple steps that will help you start out successful. 

Outfit Inspiration – 7 Ways to Style Joggers

Outfit Inspiration – 7 Ways to Style Joggers

Outfit Inspiration – 7 Ways to Style Joggers

A few weeks ago I shared 5 ways to style white jeans. I realized that there is another wardrobe staple that I have become obsessed with over the last couple of years, and that’s my pair of Athleta joggers. There are so many ways to style joggers. They are super versatile because:

  1. You can wear them to workout in or as part of a regular outfit
  2. They are super comfy
  3. They have a great fit and silhouette that is flattering for my figure

Lately, I’ve been trying to branch out in the ways I have been styling them. So, here is a little outfit inspiration – 7 ways to style black joggers. 

Black Joggers + Striped Tank + Black Jacket + Animal Print Platform Sneakers

Full disclosure: These joggers were purchased full price from Athleta a few years ago. I forget exactly how much I paid but it was in the neighborhood of $90-ish. That’s way more than I ever paid for a single piece of clothing, then or now. But these have turned out to be a great investment because of how well they are made and how much I wear them. If you told me that I could only keep 10 pieces of clothing for the next year, these joggers would be one of the keepers. 

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Divided baseball style jacket thrifted for $6

Striped Tank top from LOFT that I received as a gift.

Platform animal print sneakers purchased on sale from Target for around $11

Black Joggers + Denim Sleeveless Shirt + Black Tank + Black Slide Sandals

I liked this outfit because it felt casual without feeling like I just came from the gym. Throwing a casual top and sandals into the mix is one of the easier ways to style joggers.

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Denim sleeveless top purchased from Goodwill

Black tank top I received as a hand-me-down from a friend

Black slides that I purchased at Goodwill for my daughter but now wear

Black Joggers + Floral Short Sleeve Sweatshirt + Black Jacket + Floral Sneakers

Normally I don’t try to combine florals but I guess I was feeling adventurous this day. The Joy Lab jacket was a great thrift store find because I can remember seeing it in the store for full prices and passing on it. Later I found it at the thrift store for just $2!

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Divided short sleeve floral sweatshirt thrifted for $2

Joy Lab black jacket thrifted for $2

Nike floral sneakers purchased from Poshmark

Black Joggers + Floral Short Sleeve Sweatshirt + White Sneakers

This was a travel outfit that I wore on our trip to Northern California. I guess I really liked the combo of this top with the jogger because I’ve repeated it a few times. This time I like the white sneakers because it gives it less of a “workout” look. 

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Divided short sleeve floral sweatshirt thrifted for $2

Superga sneakers thrifted for $6

Topshop white vegan leather jacket thrifted for $14

Black Joggers + Graphic T-shirt + White Moto Jacket + White Sneakers

I remember throwing this outfit together one morning when I literally only had 5 min to get ready. Looks like I maybe had time to draw in my eyebrows and put my hair up and that’s about it! Again, the versatility of the joggers means it can be worn even with a vegan leather jacket and not look out of place.

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Graphic print tee thrifted for $1

Superga sneakers thrifted for $6

Topshop white vegan leather jacket thrifted for $14

Black Joggers + White Long Sleeve T-shirt + Denim Jacket + Pink Sneakers

The pop of pink of these sneakers is what gives this outfit interest. I purchased these Saucony kicks a few years ago after having foot surgery and literally only being able to wear sneakers. These had just the right cushion for me. I don’t wear them much anymore but maybe I’ll start bringing them back into rotation. 

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Halogen long sleeve t-shirt thrifted for $2

Old Navy denim jacket

Saucony Jazz sneakers purchased on Amazon

Black Joggers + Cropped Sweater + Floral Sneakers

This was a look that I essentially “upgraded” from a workout outfit by adding the sweater over my sports bra! But the cropped sweater works here because of the high waist of the joggers. What you can’t see pictured is that the back of the sweater is laced which gives it some fun visual interest.

This outfit includes:

Athleta joggers purchased from Athleta

Forever 21 cropped sweater thrifted for $2

Nike sneakers purchased from Poshmark

By my count it took a total of 17 pieces to create these 7 looks. That’s not necessarily “capsule wardrobe” worthy but It does go to show how you can swap out just a few things to create a lot of different looks. 

If you’re looking for more outfit inspiration, check out the 5 Outfit Inspiration Ideas Guide. This guide provides some strategies for creating interesting outfits with what you already have.  

How To Be A More Conscious Reseller

How To Be A More Conscious Reseller

How to Be a More Conscious Reseller

Recently I saw an Instagram post from a reseller who was sharing about her latest trip to Goodwill and the items she intended to flip for profit. Not too surprisingly, someone made a comment and suggested that this reseller was “taking clothes away from the poor” by buying and flipping them online. This is not a new controversy. When this idea of the “gentrification of thrift stores” first started popping up on social media, I decided to check myself and do a little research. (See my first YouTube video about the subject HERE). As it turns out, resellers are not the problem. But, this doesn’t mean that we can’t be more conscious in how we source, shop, and sell. Here I bust a few myths AND share a few ways that we, as resellers, can be more conscious and environmentally friendly in our practices. So, if you are interested in how to be a more conscious reseller, read on.

For some conscious shopping tips in general, visit the 4 Ways to Be a More Conscious Shopper blog post

Myth #1 – Goodwill’s mission is to provide inexpensive clothing to low-income people

If you go to Goodwill Industries website, you’ll find that their mission is: “Goodwill works to enhance people’s dignity and quality of life by strengthening their communities, eliminating their barriers to opportunity, and helping them reach their full potential through learning and the power of work.”

Notice that it does not say that their mission is to provide inexpensive clothing to low-income individuals. In fact, I’ve even seen Goodwill representatives post this very fact. They simply sell used clothing as a means to fund the programs that help people with barriers to find employment.

Myth #2 – If resellers shop thrift stores, there won’t be any clothes left for low-income people

The fact is that there are far too many clothes on this planet. Greenamerica.org, sites the following from an EPA report

  • Americans generate 16 million tons of textile waste a year. 
  • On average, 700,000 tons of used clothing gets exported overseas
  • 2.5 million tons of clothing are recycled
  • 3 million tons are incinerated
  • 10 million tons get sent to landfills

So clearly there is no shortage of clothing to go around. 

What about resellers driving up prices? There is some anecdotal evidence that thrift stores are raising prices on some items, to cash in on the trend toward buying secondhand clothing. But, these organizations don’t want an excess of inventory on their hands either. Rather than having to deal with shipping excess clothing overseas, a better business practice would be to lower prices to clear out inventory. This is exactly what Goodwill Marketplaces & Outlets are for. These types of “last chance” stores are a great place for anyone to get inexpensive clothing.

Conscious Reseller Tip #1 – Beware the Death Pile

In the world of reselling the term, “death pile” refers to unlisted inventory. This is not a problem in and of itself. But when your death pile gets into the hundreds or even thousands of items, and you continue sourcing, you are no longer operating an efficient business, but maybe hoarding instead. A more conscious reseller practice would be to understand how much you can list each day/week/month and adjust your sourcing schedule accordingly. As you can see from Myth #2 above, overconsumption is a real problem. Let’s not contribute to it further. 

Conscious Reseller Tip #2 – Reuse Shipping & Packaging Materials

Confession: I don’t have the MOST environmentally friendly shipping practices. But, I have been working to make small improvements. The truth is that to buy things like paper tape (instead of plastic), or recycled poly mailers or bags (instead of virgin plastic), costs more money. So, I have been implementing these things incrementally. 

One of my favorite ways to be a more environmentally conscious reseller is to reuse packaging. Every time an Amazon package arrives, I set aside the box or padded envelope to be reused. 

BTW – If you’re interested in this topic of being a more conscious reseller and looking for ways to improve sustainability, stay tuned for a future blog post about sustainable shipping practices. I’ve been doing some research and I’ll be ready to publish something in the next month or so. 

Conscious Reseller Tip #3 –  Skip the Thank You Gifts

I’m not sure if this is still prevalent but when I first started reselling a couple of years ago, it seemed like everyone was including thank you gifts in their packages. I get it. You want to delight your customers and have them feel like you’ve over-delivered. But, what I have heard from buyers is that 99% of the time, the gifts are useless to them and they just end up in the trash. The last thing we need is to contribute to more plastic and other non-compostable stuff going into landfills. So save yourself the time and money and skip sending those little trinkets. If you do feel compelled to do something extra, include a small handwritten note of thanks.

What other ideas do you have about how to be a more conscious reseller? What are some challenges that you find difficult to overcome? I’d love to hear from you. Drop a comment below!

Outfit Inspiration: The White Jean

Outfit Inspiration: The White Jean

Outfit Inspiration – The White Jean

There are certain wardrobe staples that really stand the test of time. White jeans are one of those things…at least for me. They are super versatile and therefore something I recommend for pretty much anyone. In this post, I’ll share some quick outfit inspiration ideas using…that wardrobe staple…the white jean!

White Jeans + Black Tank & Jacket + Black Sandals

First off, the white jeans pictured in this post are Old Navy Rockstar jeans that I purchased on Poshmark. I had a pair prior to this but they wore out. The reason that I like the Old Navy Rockstar jeans because they offer petite sizing. Anyhoo, because I knew these jeans fit, I was able to head over to Poshmark and search for just what I wanted, and still get them secondhand. If I had tried to find this in a thrift store it probably would take me 5 years! That’s the beauty of resale sites. Which reminds me….if you’re looking for some pointers on how to shop secondhand online, check out last week’s blog post with 4 Tips for Thrifting Online.

Okay, no on to the outfit…

This outfit includes:

  • White Old Navy jeans purchased on Poshmark
  • Joy Lab jacket thrifted for $2
  • Black Tank from Target
  • Black leather sandals thrifted for $12

White Jeans + Chambray Top + Pink Blazer + White Sneakers

This outfit is all about pastels which are super popular right now. 

This outfit includes:

  • White Old Navy jeans purchased on Poshmark
  • Banana Republic linen blazer purchased from the Goodwill bins
  • Chambray top thrifted for $2
  • White sneakers thrifted for $6

White Jeans + White T-Shirt + Green Utility Vest + Tan Sandals

I wore an outfit like this on a business trip a few years ago and got so many compliments that I decided to recreate it. The only secondhand item in this outfit are the jeans themselves. But most of these items I’ve had for many years and still get a lot of use out of them. And I just love the knit detail on the back of this vest. It makes it so much more interesting than most of the utility vests you see. 

This outfit includes:

  • White Old Navy jeans purchased on Poshmark
  • Loft T-shirt
  • Utility vest I think I got at Marshall’s a few years ago
  • Jessica Simpson sandals from TJMaxx

White Jeans + Gray T-Shirt + Brown Belt + Brown Booties

Now that I am looking at these pictures again, I realize that I could have worn these booties with the previous outfit. They are a heck of a lot more comfortable than those other sandals!

This outfit includes:

  • White Old Navy jeans purchased on Poshmark
  • Gray T-shirt thrifted for $1
  • Brown leather belt from Target that I’ve had for 15+ years
  • Brown booties that I think I bought from Zulily a few years back

White Jeans + Black Tank + Colorful Kimono Jacket + White Sneakers

I was out walking my dog in this outfit and ran into a neighbor who just gushed over this jacket. She couldn’t believe that I got it secondhand. “It looks like it’s from Anthropologie” she exclaimed!

This outfit includes:

  • White Old Navy jeans purchased on Poshmark
  • Black tank from Target
  • Kimono style jacket thrifted from Goodwill for $7
  • White sneakers thrifted for $6

It took a total of 14 pieces to create these 5 looks. That’s not necessarily “capsule wardrobe” worthy but It does go to show how you can swap out just a few things to create a lot of different looks. 

More Outfit Inspiration?

If you’re looking for more outfit inspiration, check out the 5 Outfit Inspiration Ideas Guide. This guide provides some strategies for creating interesting outfits with what you already have.  

4 Tips for Thrifting Online

4 Tips for Thrifting Online

4 Tips for Thrifting Online

In my last blog post I shared about ways to reduce overwhelm at the thrift store. I recognize that for some, no amount of tips or hacks are going to make going to the thrift store an enjoyable experience. Add to that the ease of online shopping that we’ve gotten used to since the pandemic happened, which makes it even less likely for some to step foot in the thrift store. If this is you, don’t fret! In this post i am sharing 4 tips for thrifting online so you can look better, do better, and stress less. 

Know Where To Shop

There are sooooo many sites and apps where you can buy secondhand online. I’ll list some of my favorites below. Check them out and figure out which ones you like best. 

  1. Poshmark – I’ve been shopping on Poshmark since 2014 and selling since 2019. Poshmark has both new and used clothing from sellers in the US and Canada. It has one of the largest communities which means that you have a great selection. Their site and their app are easy to navigate. Shipping is a flat rate so there’s no worrying about that. Although sellers can offer shipping discounts if they choose.

  2. eBay – eBay is sort of the OG of buying used stuff online. You can find some great deals on used clothing there. eBay is a little more complicated. Some items are sold with an auction, some are “buy it now” prices only. Shipping fees are all over the place. But, if you’re up for it this is a great place to find deals!

  3. Mercari – This is another app/site that has a very easy user experience. Because Mercari seller fees are lower than a lot of other platforms, you can usually get better deals there vs. a site like Poshmark.

  4. Swap Society – This is a virtual swap site. Meaning, you first send in your unwanted items. There is a subscription fee as well. But, it’s a great way to constantly refresh your wardrobe. Sign up for a subscription and Swap Society will send you a bag. Fill it up and send it back. You’ll earn points for the clothes you send in and then you use those points to shop for used items. Each item is a flat price of $4.99. If you don’t have a friend group that you can easily swap with, this is a great option.

  5. Kidizen – If you are looking for kids clothes, Kidizen is where it’s at. The app has a huge amount of sellers selling their kids clothes that they’ve grown out of or no longer need. There is also a section for “Mama Clothing” in case you want to shop for yourself too!

  6. Depop – If you’re looking for funkier and/or vintage clothing, Depop has a great selection. Sellers on Depop pride themselves on taking compelling photos of their items, often personally modeling the clothes. Shopping on Depop is a fun and bright experience.

  7. Thredup – Thredup boasts that they are the world’s largest online thrift store. I believe it! Because they have such a large inventory, you really need a strategy before you start shopping there. This brings me to my next tip.

Use Filters

Browsing these sites can be overwhelming because of the large selection. Get familiar with the filters each site provides and use that to narrow your search. For example, on Thredup I will filter by size and fabric content, because I prefer to try and find clothes made with natural fibers. Oh, and here’s a reseller bonus tip…check their “unbranded” filter. Oftentimes you can find designer items that either had the tags cut or were missed by the person listing the item. This usually means you can get a really quality item below market value. This is one of my favorite tips for thrifting online!

Read Descriptions Carefully

Anytime that you are shopping for used clothes online, you need to be careful to read descriptions. Some items might have damage or have been altered in some way. Sometimes there might be a button missing or a small stain. When this happens the item should be priced accordingly. If you don’t mind a little sewing or stain removal work, you can get some good deals this way. I know that as a reseller, there have been times that I didn’t see a flaw when I first purchased the item. But I list it anyway and disclose the flaw. My flawed items always sell. Go figure! Again, some people are willing to take on a project. So if this is you, like I said, you can get a great deal. If this is not you, buyer beware! If a price seems too good to be true it’s probably for a reason. This brings me to my last tip.

Check Return Policies

Different sites have different policies when it comes to returns. Some sites like eBay, allow users to state their own terms when it comes to returns. Other sites, like Poshmark, only allow returns if the item was somehow misrepresented. Most sites will not allow returns for fit. Meaning, once you receive the item, if you find it doesn’t fit you, that’s not a good enough reason to return in. Which is another easy why reading the descriptions carefully is important!

 

Give it a Try!

Pick one of these sites and start browsing and let me know if these tips were helpful. For more help check out the Checklist for Building a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget. This free guide includes free and low cost tips for eco-friendly fashion. 

Is Sustainable Fashion Really Attainable?

Is Sustainable Fashion Really Attainable?

Is Sustainable Fashion Really Attainable?

Recently I was reading a blog about sustainable fashion and the author made, what I thought was a bold statement. She said that there is no such thing as 100% sustainable fashion. My initial reaction was to scoff at this. Then, I started feeling resigned that maybe she was right. So, what does sustainable fashion really mean, is sustainable fashion really attainable, and should we be striving for 100% sustainability?

What Is Sustainable Fashion?

There are a few definitions of sustainable fashion out there. Here are a couple that I like:

Wikipedia says this:

“Sustainable fashion (also known as eco-fashion and ReFashion) is a movement and process of fostering change to fashion products and the fashion system towards greater ecological integrity and social justice. Sustainable fashion concerns more than just addressing fashion textiles or products. It addresses the whole system of how clothing is produced, who produced it and how long the life span of a product is before it reaches landfill. This means dealing with interdependent social, cultural, ecological, and financial systems.”

Good On You says this:

“…sustainable fashion is simply about fostering a fashion industry that takes a long term approach to the design, manufacturing, and consumption of clothes and accessories. It’s about fashion that both creates good and avoids harm, whether to people, the planet, or animals.”

These definitions tend to focus on the production of textiles and garments. Even when companies focus on more ethical working conditions, transparent supply chains, organic fabrics, etc. they still have to ship those garments. Changes are they are being shipped using transportation powered by fossil fuels. Or, they have to package their garments in plastic bags to protect them. They could use recycled plastic instead of virgin plastic. But still, that’s not exactly sustainable. (BTW – For my reseller business I have started using packaging from EcoEnclose, which is 100% recycled plastic.) So, even sustainable brands are likely not 100% sustainable. What about shopping secondhand? Is that sustainable?

Adopting More Sustainable Practices

So, if it is unrealistic to think we can have 100% sustainability, what can we do? As it turns out, actually a lot. Here are some easy ways to be more sustainable in our wardrobes:

  1. Wear your clothes longer – If you are shopping for quality, your clothes will last longer and stay out of the landfill longer. 
  2. Shop sustainable brands – Research companies that are committed to sustainable practices. The Good On You app can help you. But, if you still feel like sustainable brands are out of reach…..
  3. Shop secondhand – Extend the life of an existing garment. Again keeping it out of the landfill longer. 
  4. Practice conscious shopping – I shared about this in last week’s blog. Consuming less is inherently sustainable. 

It doesn’t serve us to think that we need to do sustainability 100% perfectly. That just leads to resignation and eventually giving up on trying altogether. If you care about the environment, sustainability and ethical work practices, just try and adopt one small change to how you dress yourself. Every small action adds up to a larger impact, even a movement. For more detailed tips, check out the Checklist for Creating a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget

4 Ways To Be a More Conscious Shopper

4 Ways To Be a More Conscious Shopper

What does it mean to be a more conscious shopper?

To me, it means being thoughtful about the purchases you make and the impact your choices have on our world. Whether it is the environment, the economy, or the people who make the products we buy. This week I’m sharing 4 ways to be a more conscious shopper, especially when it comes to your wardrobe.

Click below to watch the video.

What Are 4 Ways To Be a More Conscious Shopper?

In summary, here are 4 ways to be a more conscious shopper:

  1. Think of the end of a garment’s life
  2. Understand the power of your purchases
  3. Resist the impulse buy
  4. Shop local and/or second hand

Remember, the fashion industry is the second biggest polluter, right behind the oil industry. So, it is important to be thoughtful about what we put in our closets, just as we might be thoughtful about what kind of car we choose to drive.

 

It’s About Progress, Not Perfection

It is also just as important to not beat yourself up if you are not 100% conscious or sustainable in your choices. The idea is to make better choices as much as possible and give yourself a little grace.

If you are looking for some tips on how to break up with fast fashion, check out the Checklist for Creating a Sustainable Wardrobe On a Budget

Why Do We Need So Much Stuff?

Why Do We Need So Much Stuff?

Recently I was scrolling through Netflix, looking for a new show to watch, and I came across the show Hoarders. In case you haven’t heard of it, the show features people who suffer from Hoarding Disorder, which is defined by the Mayo Clinic as “..a persistent difficulty discarding or parting with possessions because of a perceived need to have them. A person with hoarding disorder experiences distresses at the thought of getting rid of items. Excessive accumulation of items, regardless of actual value, occurs.” As soon as I started watching this show, I couldn’t look away. My husband didn’t understand why I would watch such a thing. I mean, I get it. Why would I waste my time with such “reality” TV? After reflecting on it a bit, it’s really the psychology of it that fascinates me the most – the irrationality of the acquisition of stuff that we don’t need. Why do we do it? Why do we need so much stuff?

Most People Like to Acquire Stuff

The show “Hoarders” obviously takes a look at the most extreme cases of acquisition because that is what gets us to tune in. A person with hoarding disorder will often have a serious relationship and health struggles as a result of this compulsion. But, what about the average person? Why do we choose to acquire the things that we do? Consider your last purchase. Was it something you really needed? Say, for example, groceries. Or, was it something that you just wanted. Such as a new purse even though you have several that work very well. Now, the point of this post is not to shame anyone for liking to buy nice things, Most of us do. The point is to really explore our motivations and how to think more consciously about what we acquire. 

Let’s Take a Look At Our Closets

Since I like to write about conscious and sustainable fashion, let’s explore this topic of why we need so much stuff by taking a look at our closets. Do you have a sense of how many articles of clothing you own? Of those items, could you estimate what percentage of those clothes that you actually wear? I’ve seen some experts say that we only wear about 20-30% of the clothes that are in our closets. If that’s the case, why do we have all the other items, and why can’t we seem to get rid of it? Until recently, I was one of those people who did not wear most of the clothes in their closet. I’ve slowly and methodically been working to change that. You can read a little more about my process in my Conscious Closet Cleanse Part I and Part II blog posts. (Part III coming soon!)

If you’d like to have a closet filled mostly with clothes that you WANT to wear, there are a few different ways to really get in touch with what’s in your closet and what you will actually wear. I find that the first best step is to take an inventory of what you have. It doesn’t have to be super detailed. You can use a spreadsheet or just a notebook to capture what you currently have. Create rows for major categories such as tops, jackets, pants, skirts, dresses, sweaters, etc. Then just take a basic count and add it up. Does the number shock you? I was definitely shocked the first time I did this. Here’s an example of my spreadsheet over the span of about a month. 

How Much Do You Actually Wear?

Okay, so you know how much you have. That’s a great first step! But what really matters is how much of it do you actually wear? If you wear most of the clothes that are in your closet, GREAT! But if not, there is a chance that you are acquiring those clothes for some unconscious or irrational reason. Maybe it was a great deal. Or you bought it on vacation and it has sentimental value. It could even be something you acquired as a status symbol, i.e. designer bag.

A simple way to figure this out is to literally pull out all the clothes that you know you’ve worn in the last year and put them in one section of your closet. The opposite can also work. Meaning, pull and set aside all the things that you KNOW you haven’t worn in at least a year. Take a count and figure out the percent that you actually wear. (For additional ways to sort what you wear vs. what you don’t, check out my blog post about the Best Time To Clean Out Your Closet

The “ribbon test” is a great way to learn what you do and don’t wear. After you wear and was something, put it back on the right side of the ribbon. After a while, everything that remains on the left is stuff you don’t or rarely wear. 

By now you should have a rough number of where you are with your worn vs. unworn clothing. But knowing that number is probably not  enough to get you to make changes  in how you acquire and keep things. Why DO we need so much stuff? Keep reading and we’ll start to get to the heart of the matter. 

Time To Take a Hard Look At Things

Now that you have gotten in touch with the reality of how many clothes you have hanging in your closet, and how much of it you actually wear, it’s time to really consider why you have so many clothes that you do not wear. Here are a few questions I asked myself that might also work for you:

  1. Who was I with when I bought this? Did it influence my decision to purchase?
  2. Would I have proactively sought out this item if I had never stumbled across it in the first place? 
  3. Did I only buy this because it was a “great deal” even though it doesn’t fit or isn’t my style?
  4. Did you purchase the item because you felt you “deserved it” or as a reward?

Again, the aim here is not to pass judgment on anyone’s decisions. Even as someone who blogs about conscious and sustainable fashion, I find that sometimes I purchase something that later I scratch my head over. Wondering, “what was I thinking when I bought this?”

Are We Possessed?

In the book “Possessed: Why We Want More Than We Need” by Bruce M. Hood, the author explores this whole idea of possession and acquisition. So, why do we need so much stuff? Goodreads sums it up this way, “[Possessed] reveals how we are compelled to accumulate possessions in a relentless drive to seek status and approval by signaling our values to others by what we own. It traces the history of ownership but looks to the future as our drive to own will need to adapt to environmental and technological change”

As we consider the future of the planet and the environment, there are some very simple things that we can do to save money, reduce waste and reduce our carbon footprint. 

 

Making the Most of What You Have

Most experts in the sustainability or green movement will tell you that we cannot acquire our way out of the environmental crisis we’re facing. Even if you are not a believer in man-made climate change, just consider the very real cost of disposing of our unwanted items. In “The Waste-Free World: How the Circular Economy Will Take Less, Make More, and Save The Planet” author Ron Gonen outlines a very compelling case.

You see, the trash we throw out has to go somewhere. Often cities and communities will ship our garbage out of state, at a huge expense to taxpayers, because we’ve run out of room for our own trash. Using and acquiring less, as well as recycling and repurposing existing items are some ways to help reduce this excess garbage we’re throwing out every day. Here are a few things that you can do NOW, starting with your own closet. 

  1. Shop Your Own Closet – Make new outfits out of pieces you already own. To learn how download my 6 Ways To Shop Your Closet Guide 
  2. Shop Secondhand – Don’t let anyone tell you that thrift stores are being overrun by rich folks and resellers. There is PLENTY to go around. More than plenty, actually. Thrift and charity stores still throw away a lot of unwanted and unsellable clothing. New to thrifting? Check out the blog post on 5 Tips If You’re New To Thrifting 
  3. Choose to repair or remake items you already have instead of chucking them. I recommend you start following the hashtag #visiblemending for repair inspiration. I also recommend that you follow my friend Crispina ffrench. She teaches people how to make beautiful potholder rugs using unwanted textiles. You can find her at www.crispina.eco

If you decide your entire closet is a lost cause, check out my Checklist for Creating a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget so you can build a closet full of clothes that you love to wear, while reducing your carbon footprint, and saving money.

 

Creating a Conscious Wardrobe on a Budget

Creating a Conscious Wardrobe on a Budget

What Does it Mean to Have a Conscious Wardrobe?

There is a lot of talk about sustainable, eco-friendly, and ethical fashion these days. I recently read a blog that said there is no such thing as sustainable fashion. In another article I read they argued about what is the “true” meaning of ethical fashion. It’s easy to get tripped up on these terms, let them cause confusion, and then we throw our hands up in the air and say “screw it” because it just seems too hard to do the right thing!! I tend to use the term “conscious” when describing the effort to have a more sustainable, ethical, and eco-friendly wardrobe. Because we’ll never get things 100% right. Instead, we can focus on the choices we make. Such as what we buy, where, how often, and how we treat the clothes we already own. All of this is part of creating a conscious wardrobe.

Imagine taking a look inside your closet and knowing that you’ve acquired your wardrobe in ethical, eco-friendly, and sustainable ways. It may sound daunting but it’s totally doable, once you learn a couple of important things about how clothes are made. Let’s take a look at a couple of these factors and where we can make small but easy to implement changes toward the better good. 

Sustainable Brands

Many clothing companies have committed to sustainable practices which means that they design, manufacture, distribute and use their clothing in ways that are friendly toward the environment. There are way too many sustainable clothing brands to list. But a few you might be familiar with are Eileen Fisher, Nanette Lepore, Everlane, Patagonia, Stella McCartney, Reformation, and Rag & Bone. 

Are these companies perfect when it comes to their environmental track record? Probably not. But what they do is go above and beyond the status quo of the fashion industry and make a conscious effort to be leaders in their eco-friendly practices. For example, they might use reclaimed or recycled materials as well as organic fabrics and dyes. 

You might be thinking….that’s nice, but those brands are not within my budget. It is true that most sustainable brands are more expensive. That is because these brands are committed to things like fair labor, safe workplaces, organic and regenerative materials, and sometimes local production (i.e. made domestically in the US vs. a country like Bangladesh). While I firmly believe that it is important to support brands that have made a commitment to sustainability, I know that is just not within everyone’s reach. But, rest assured, creating a conscious wardrobe on a budget is possible! 

What Does It Mean for Clothes to be Ethically Made?

Did you know that less than 3% of the clothing we Americans purchase is actually made in the US? That is down from about 50% in 1990. So if our clothes are made outside of the US, where are they made? They are made in places like China, Bangladesh, India, Vietnam, and Cambodia. So, you might be thinking… “So what? People in those countries need jobs too, don’t they?” Yes, of course. But chances are that they are not working under the same conditions as most US workers. 

The collapse of the Rana Plaza factory in Bangladesh in 2013 was the world’s largest garment industry disaster ever witnessed. This tragedy that cost over 1000 deaths shed an international spotlight on garment worker conditions around the world. For example, did you know that a garment worker in Bangladesh makes a minimum wage of $95 per month? That’s less than a quarter of the living wage in that country. 

(Source: The Conscious Closet)

Our demand for cheap fast fashion drives the demand that leads to these conditions. This was a really hard pill for me to swallow. For a long time, I was perfectly happy to ignore what I intuitively knew, something shady must be going on for me to be able to buy a brand new $10 blouse at my favorite fast-fashion brand. If you are anything like me, you want your wardrobe to match your values. 

1. Create new outfits with what you already have

2. Cleanse your closet of what you don’t wear.

3. Cash in and fund your new wardrobe by selling what you don’t want.

4. Curate a collection of garments that you love to wear. 

How To Have a Wardrobe That Matches Your Values

The best way to start is to take small steps. This is a process. But, there are several things that can be done to start to build a more conscious wardrobe, full of clothes that you actually love to wear, and that have a lesser carbon footprint. If you’re curious about how your fashion habits impact the environment, head over to my last blog post – How Bad Is It Really To Shop Fast Fashion – and use the calculator linked there to measure your impact. 

To build that more conscious wardrobe, without spending a fortune, I’ve developed a 4 step process that will have you looking in your closet and being proud of what you have in there, excited to put on the clothes that you own, and confident that you’ve made a positive impact on the planet. At a high level, the process is as follows:

The 4 Cs

  1. Create – Start with what you already own and create new outfits with things you already have. If you need help getting started, check out the 6 Ways to Shop Your Closet guide for some tips.
  2. Cleanse – Do a thorough evaluation of what you own and what you actually wear. Once you’ve decided what to purge, responsibly pass on those gently used garments by either swapping, donating, recycling or selling. This brings us to Step 3!
  3. Cash In – It is easier than ever to sell your unwanted clothes using nothing more than your smartphone. Apps like Poshmark and Mercari are extremely easy to use. Consignment stores are another great option. You can then use these funds to move on to step 4. 
  4. Curate – This step may take some time but it is the most satisfying, in my opinion. This is where you start to fill in the gaps in your wardrobe with quality clothing that you love. This is done by shopping second-hand, investing in higher quality and/or sustainable garments. 

If you are ready to take the next step, check out the Checklist for Creating a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget for more specific tips and tools. Please leave a comment and let me know where you are on your journey and how I can help!

How Bad is it Really to Shop Fast Fashion?

How Bad is it Really to Shop Fast Fashion?

How Bad Is it Really to Shop Fast Fashion?

Most of the clothing that I buy for myself and my daughter are secondhand. For me it’s about 95% secondhand and for my daughter it’s probably close to 85%. (The men in my family shop so little for clothing I’m not even considering them in this equation.) So, overall I feel pretty good about being a conscious fashion consumer and my impact on environmental and ethical factors that go into producing fashion today. I was recently faced with a real dilemma. My daughter had a semi-formal awards ceremony to attend for her choir and she wanted to buy a dress. Okay, that’s totally reasonable. Then she told me that she wants a NEW dress…as in…not thrifted. Okay…deep breaths! The whole experience had me reflect once again on fast fashion and how bad is it really to shop fast fashion. And, how should we feel about it if we do?

Dress Shopping

After my daughter said she wanted to get a new dress I had to sort of rack my brain for where to shop. No kidding. I genuinely wasn’t sure where to go. She suggested Marshall’s and Ross. Okay great, at least those are affordable options! But, it turns out they were a total bust. They each had lots of dresses but nothing semi-formal. After a few days of her sulking with disappointment, I took her to…deep breath….THE MALL! We started in a department store but didn’t see anything to her liking. So, we ventured into the mall and hit one of the popular fast fashion chains where a lot of girls get their dance dresses. She immediately found several dresses that were good contenders for her event.

While she was looking around, I decided to peruse the clearance section just to see if there were any hidden gems in there. I was floored. Almost every item in there was pilled, torn, pulled or literally looked like it was falling apart. These clothes were so cheaply made that they couldn’t even last long enough to make it out of the store in one piece. Imagine trying to wear one of these more than once? I think they might just disintegrate!

The Aftermath

Fairly quickly, my daughter was able to find the dress that she liked and we chose a couple of accessories to go with it. I held my nose at the cash register as I paid $79 for a dress that would probably fall apart as soon as she wore it. We got home later and my husband asked how it went. Of course, my daughter was elated with her dress. After she left the room, I told him that I had a hard time shopping in that store because it was all such crap. Then, I reminded myself that a purchase at a fast fashion brand is a VERY RARE occurrence for us. It does no good to beat myself up for it. It does create a learning opportunity. I decided to dig deeper into how bad is it really to shop fast fashion. 

The Fashion Footprint Calculator

I decided to turn to Thredup’s Fashion Footprint Calculator. It’s a really great tool and I hope to have one like it built for my website one day. After answering all the questions about my shopping and laundry habits, the calculator told me the following:

  • My fashion habits contribute to 794 lbs of carbon emissions annually
  • My footprint is 51% lower than the average consumer. 

I was honestly hoping for a better number. I think the fact that I do so much laundry is what really drives it up. I’ve been practicing wearing an item multiple times before washing and trying to educate my family to do the same. My daughter will wear something for an hour and then throw it in the hamper!

Try the calculator for yourself and see what your impact is. Whatever your number is, this is not an invitation to beat yourself up! Knowledge can be power but really it is APPLIED knowledge that is power. Get a sense of where you stand and start making some small changes. I am clearly far from perfect at this thing called conscious and sustainable fashion. But I have been trying to take steps to make improvements. You can follow a little. of this journey in my two blog posts of my Concsious Closet Cleanse Part I and Part II.

So How Bad is it Really?

To answer the question in the title of this post – How Bad Is It Really to Shop Fast Fashion – I did the calculator again. This time I did it as if I were someone who frequently shopped, didn’t choose secondhand or sustainable brands, and didn’t have environmentally friendly laundry habits. The result?

  • Those fashion habits contribute to 2337 lbs of carbon emissions annually
  • A carbon footprint that is 44% higher than the average consumer

Even though I had hoped my numbers would be better, I am happy to know that the effort that I put into having a conscious wardrobe does make a difference. 

You Can Make a Difference

If you are someone who cares about the environmental and ethical impacts of fashion, there is a lot you can do to help the equation. 

  • Shop sustainable brands
  • Shop secondhand
  • Do less laundry by wearing each item more than once
  • Repair your clothing
  • Buy quality items that will last

The best part is that you can still have a wardrobe full of clothes that you love, nix fast fashion AND do it all on a small budget. I know that the fancy sustainable brands can feel out of reach but it is totally possible to create a more conscious wardrobe that you love! For more details, download the Checklist for Creating a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget.

In what ways have you tried to reduce the negative impact of fast fashion? Drop me a comment below and share your best practices so we can all learn and do better!

The Best Time To Clean Out Your Closet

The Best Time To Clean Out Your Closet

The Best Time to Clean Out Your Closet

Do you stand in front or inside your closet and say to yourself, “I have nothing to wear!” Even though clearly the closet is full of clothes? If this is you, don’t feel bad. This happens to most of us at one point or another. Sometimes it is because we buy things that are inexpensive or were “a good deal” but those items didn’t really fit our taste. Or, it could be because we hang onto clothing because it was expensive or something we once really liked, but it no longer fits our lifestyle. Whatever the reason, one way to combat this issue is to do a regular closet cleanout or closet cleanse, as I like to call it. In this post, I’ll share the best time to clean out your closet, along with a few tips for ensuring you DO have clothes you actually WANT to wear when you’re finished. 

What’s The Best Time To Clean Out Your Closet?

There are several approaches to this but my favorite is to do a closet cleanse seasonally. Here’s why – You can very quickly discern if you wore any garments from the season that just ended. Therefore, you don’t have to wonder “will I wear this?” You already know if you did or didn’t. 

Here’s how it works:

  1. As the season changes, go through your clothes from the season that just ended. For example, if Spring just started, you want to go through your winter clothes.
  2. Were there any items that you went the whole season without wearing or even really thinking about? If the answer is “yes” then that item can likely be donated, sold or swapped. (See The Conscious Closet in Action blog post for more tips)
  3. If you’re like me and live in a climate that doesn’t really have 4 distinct seasons, notice when the weather starts to change. For example, now that it is May, I noticed it’s been a bit since I  wore any of my pullover sweaters. So, it’s a perfect time to go through my sweaters, coats, boots and other winter and fall items. 

Other Ways to Cleanse Your Closet

There are a couple of other techniques that you can apply to cleaning out your closet, whether you choose to do it seasonally or more or less often. Really, the best time to clean out your closet is the time that works best FOR YOU.

Technique #1 – The Ribbon Test

  • Tie a ribbon at the far right end of your closet. 
  • After you wear an item, hang it to the right of the ribbon (opposite from where most of your clothes are hung). If your closet has several sections, you might need a few ribbons, one for each section. If you put most of your clothes in a drawer, you can do the same thing by using a folder, book or board of some kind to separate these sections.
  • Try this for about 1-3 months. 
  • After that time, take a look at the items to the left of the ribbon. Those are your most likely contenders to donate, swap or sell. 

 

These are a few of my experiments with pairing old and new items. 

Technique #2 – What’s Old is New Again

  • Go through your closet and pick out 5-10 items that you know you haven’t worn in at least a year. 
  • Set them aside in a designated section of your closet. 
  • Start creating outfits with these pieces, mixing these older pieces with newer ones that you wear more often. For example, maybe there is a blouse that you haven’t worn for over a year because you feel it’s too dressy for your lifestyle. Try wearing it with your favorite pair of jeans. Maybe put a white tee under it to dress it down for a more casual look. 
  • After giving the old item another chance, decide if it is something you are going to keep and try wearing again or, if you really are just over it. 

Make a New, More Conscious Habit

If you can get into a new habit of using one or more of these techniques on a regular basis, you’ll be well on your way to refreshing your wardrobe and making room for the clothes that you really DO WANT TO WEAR. The next step is to discover the gaps in your wardrobe and make a plan to fill those gaps. This can be more challenging than it seems – it requires a more conscious approach to make sure we don’t just fill our closets full of cheap so-so clothes again. The Checklist for Creating a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget is a great resource to help you get started with ensuring that the choices that you do make are ethical and environmentally friendly. 

The 5 Best Garments To Buy Second Hand

The 5 Best Garments To Buy Second Hand

I probably buy 99% of the clothing for me and my family second hand. I also have a reseller business. So, I spend a good amount of time shopping in thrift and second hand stores. I’ve come to realize that there are some things you should absolutely pick up when you find them, and some things you’re better off staying away from. In this post, I’ll focus on the best garments to buy second hand. 

Why Second Hand is Better

Clothing manufacturing is one of the largest contributors to carbon emissions. Garment factory workers are often working under unsafe and exploitative conditions. There is much, much more clothing in the world than we could ever wear. Nearly everything you need can be found shopping second-hand. By doing so, we’re reducing the demand for new garments and helping protect the environment. 

Okay….onto the list of the best garments to buy second hand!

BTW – Let me acknowledge something right upfront. I was once a vegan (I still eat mostly plant-based, but I digress), which meant eschewing any product that comes from an animal. But, I’ve shifted my perspective a bit when it comes to clothing. By shopping second-hand for products that come from animals, such as leather (from cows), cashmere (from goats), wool (from sheep), or silk (silkworms), we are again reducing the demand for these products to be produced brand new. So, ethically, I do not have an issue buying these items second-hand.

1. Cashmere Sweaters

I never owned a real cashmere sweater until I started thrift shopping. I’ve always been a bargain hunter at heart and could never fully justify the price tag that comes with a cashmere sweater, even if it was on sale. But, since I began thrifting, I have come across MANY cashmere sweaters. Some are too trashed to be saved. Some are in near perfect condition. In between, you might find some that need a little mending or just a good once over with a sweater shaver. That is why I think they are one of the best garments to buy second hand. 

The sweater pictured was one of FOUR that I found on a single trip to the thrift store. I kept two of them and put the other two up for sale. I live in SoCal so there are not exactly a LOT of opportunities for cashmere weather!

2. Silk Blouses

Just like with cashmere sweaters, I don’t think I ever owned a real silk blouse that I purchased with my own money. I just always assumed it to be too expensive. Also, I’m sure I would have rather purchased 10 cheap polyester shirts than have one good silk one. That is, until I learned just how problematic that practice is/was. I didn’t really think much about the idea of owning a real silk blouse until I read Elizabeth L. Cline’s book “The Conscious Closet” and she talked about acquiring some of her grandmother’s silk blouses. (For my book review of The Conscious Closet, click HERE). 

3. Special Occasion Dresses

There’s nothing worse than showing up at an event wearing the same dress as someone else. Fortunately, that only happened to me once, when I was in high school, and that was because our entire drill team all went shopping at the Esprit Outlet in San Francisco while visiting for a parade. But seriously, it could easily happen Have you seen two women show up at the same event in the same dress. Or, maybe it was as a teen at a high school dance. That’s one big reason why I like the idea of buying a special occasion dress secondhand. It’s pretty unlikely someone else would have thrifted the same piece or would have kept it in their closet for a long period of time. 

The other reason that I like to buy special occasion dresses second-hand is because of the cost per wear (CPW). What is the cost per wear? Well, take the price that you paid for that dress, and divide it by the number of times you wear it. A special occasion dress, by nature, is not going to be worn a lot. Let’s look at some examples. Maybe you paid $100 for your favorite pair of jeans, but you wear them, on average about once a week. 

$100/52 = $1.92 per wear

Now let’s look at a new vs. secondhand special occasion dress. Let’s say you pay $200 for said dress and only wear it to one event. 

$200/1 = $200 per wear

Okay, now let’s say you pick up a great dress at your local Goodwill, for example. My Goodwill prices their dresses around $11.49

$11.49/1 = $11.49 per wear

Even if you go to a fancier secondhand or consignment store, chances are you are going to be able to get that special dress for much, much less than you would if you purchased something new/retail. 

That’s me on the right with my eyes closed. Obviously pre-digital photography. 

My daughter and I scored this WHBM dress at Goodwilll for around $12. We added the red ribbon for her Christmas Eve solo at church. 

4. Jewelry

A little collection of all my favorite thrift store jewelry. Okay, they’re mostly necklaces, which apparently I cannot get enough of. 

I will preface this by saying that not all thrift stores are great when it comes to jewelry. A lot of them keep the stuff under lock and key and it can be a pain to try and get a good look at it. My favorite thrift store, however, has all their jewelry nicely displayed. This is where I pretty much get ALL my jewelry. I find so many fun and unique pieces, mostly necklaces. I get tons of compliments and when people ask where I got it, I tell them at my favorite thrift store, They immediately want to try and get their hands on a hidden gem too. 

Jewelry can be a great way to update your look without spending a lot of money. So, if you are someone who tends to wear more classic garments, but still wants to look current, accessories and jewelry are a great way to do that. If your local thrift doesn’t have a great jewelry selection, try shopping online on sites like Poshmark, Mercari, Thredup. Even Swap Society has jewelry! I got a darling pair of earrings from them. 

5. Leather

I hate the idea of an animal giving their life so that I can look fashionable. This is why I never buy any leather NEW. It’s just not necessary. By buying leather secondhand, we’re reducing the demand for more new leather to be produced. Just like with all other garments, there are plenty of leather goods out there that can be acquired secondhand. For example, I purchased a pair of black Steve Madden boots for my daughter at Goodwill. They were a little beat up but with a little shoe polish that look new!

Handbags are another great leather good to buy secondhand. Go onto any of the sites that I mentioned above and you’ll find endless bags to choose from. We women can sometimes be a fickle bunch when it comes to our tastes in bags, Many are motivated to recoup at least part of their investment so selling handbags has always been popular. 

A friend told me about a great shop in Portland, OR called Half Pint Leather and they specialize in selling all vintage and used leather goods. 

What Might You Find?

When you turn from retail shopping to secondhand shopping you never know what you’ll find and fall in love with. Imagine finding affordable quality pieces nearly every time you shop. Items that will not only last the test of time, not only make you feel and look great, but will not be contributing to extra pollution because you’ve now extended the life of that garment. You can feel great about what you wear, ON EVERY LEVEL!

Drop me a comment below and let me know what you think are the best garments to buy second hand. And if you want even more tips on how to create a sustainable and conscious wardrobe on a budget, check out the free Checklist for Creating A Sustainable Wardrobe On A Budget

Closet Cleanse Dilemma: What Do You Do With Clothes That Don’t Fit?

Closet Cleanse Dilemma: What Do You Do With Clothes That Don’t Fit?

So You’re Doing a Closet Cleanse…

So you’re finally getting around to cleaning out your closet. Good for you! You may have your own system or maybe you’re following the advice of another style blogger. There’s definitely no shortage of advice. But, there is a specific closet cleanse dilemma that I seldom see addressed thoroughly. What to do with clothes that don’t fit.

We’ve all been there, I’m sure. There’s that dress or those jeans that once fit like a glove, but because of the baby or covid, you’ve put on a few pounds and that garment doesn’t quite fit. Or, maybe you were going through an illness or other significant weight loss and some of your clothes are now too big. So, the question becomes: Do I keep it or get rid of it?

Consider the Impact on Your Mindset

Keeping something in your closet that doesn’t fit can have a significant impact on your outlook. For some, it can be motivational. As in, “my goal is to fit back into those jeans in 2 months.” But for others, it can have the opposite effect. As in, “I’ll probably never fit into those again but I’ll keep them just in case.” It’s helpful to get in touch with which camp you fall into before attempting to do a closet cleanse. If you approach this with a few simple tactics in mind, you’ll not only feel great about the clothes that you end up keeping in your closet, but you’ll make peace with those that you decide to let go of. 

Start with an Aspirational Box

In a previous post, I went over what to do with the items you are cleansing from your closet. You can check that out HERE but if you don’t want to read the whole blog, the short version is: donate, sell, swap, recycle. Recently I thought of an additional option, what I call an “Aspirational Box” or you may have seen some call it a goal box. Use whatever euphemism works for you. But, essentially this box is for items that don’t currently fit (either too big or too small) but you still like think you would like to wear again.

Pro Tip! – Use a clear storage bin in a conspicuous area so you don’t forget about it entirely. Or, if the space in your closet permits, section off a portion of your closet for your aspirational items. Plan to revisit that bin about once a month.

When creating this box, keep the following in mind:

1. How likely is it that the item will fit in the future?

Be honest with yourself. Is the change in your body that caused those clothes to not fit temporary or not? If you are confident that the answer is “yes” this will fit me again, put the garment in your aspirational box.

2. Is the quality high enough to justify alteration?

Even if the answer to the above question is “no” you may still have a use for that garment. A high-quality wool dress might benefit from being taken in, or even let out if there is enough fabric to work with. Iif that’s the case, put it in your aspirational box for alteration in the future. If an item is a fast-fashion piece that you paid $10 for. Just donate it. Chances are you won’t miss it and it will cost you more to alter it than it’s worth.

3. Does it still match your style?

Sometimes we hang onto something that we once loved for so long that it no longer matches our style or even anything resembling a current trend. I had this pantsuit that I used to love but after baby #2 in 2009 it was harder to fit into the pants. But I kept hanging onto it thinking….someday maybe. Fast forward to 2020 when I no longer had a corporate job that required anything resembling a pant suit. Why did I still have that thing? I donated the pants and put the jacket in the aspirational box/section of my closet. I tried wearing it once or twice and realized it just wasn’t my style anymore. So, I decided to sell it.

You can use a clear storage bin like this one for your aspirational box. It’s important that it be clear so you can see what is there and as a reminder to check back with your aspirational items every month or so. 

The jacket that was part of the pantsuit I mentioned above is still available for sale! (As of this writing)

Check in With Your Aspirational Box

Every month or so, check in with your box or section of your closet and re-evaluate each item. Will you put it back in the box and try again next month? Are you going to alter it? Are you finally ready to let it go? Don’t just dump stuff in there and forget it. Set a reminder on your calendar or plan to do it on the first of the month. If a different frequency works better for you, say every 2 months, that’s okay too. The goal is to NOT forget about the box but we also DO NOT want it to be a demotivator.

Now What Will You Wear?

Doing a closet cleanse can be very rewarding and it’s a great way to get in touch with the clothes that you really DO love to wear. Just picture your closet after a cleanse. All that old stuff no longer nagging at you. But you actually have a closet full of things you love to wear. The best part? You didn’t have to spend any money to do it!

After doing a cleanse, I like to challenge myself to create new outfits with the items that I have left. If you’d like help in this area, I have two resources that you might like.

6 Ways to Shop Your Closet Guide

Outfit Inspiration Ideas

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4 Ways to Make Every Day Earth Day

4 Ways to Make Every Day Earth Day

Conscious Wardrobe Makeover: 4 Ways to Make Every Day Earth Day

1. Makeover Your Laundry Routine

If you want to get really present to how much laundry you and your family produce, have your washer or dryer break. That’s what happened to me a couple of weeks ago. Our dryer went kaput! Even worse, the part needed to fix it would take 1-2 weeks to arrive and then we could schedule the repair guys to come back and fix it. But, it’s not like I could stop doing laundry. So, here are a few things I did that really made me start thinking differently about my laundry. 

  1. Line Drying – The washer still worked but I had to hang a clothesline in my yard to dry the clothes. Luckily I live in Southern California where it is sunny most days so this was fairly easy. But, it let me only really do like one load of laundry a day. So, that leads me to the next item on this list…
  2. Scrutinize what “dirty” means – Instead of just throwing everything in the hamper just because it touched my skin, I truly had to think, “Is this dirty or smelly?” “Can I wear it again without washing?” This lead to fewer clothes going into the hamper. Getting my kids to question this was a little more challenging though. 😫
  3. Always run a full load – Since I could only do one load a day I had to make it count! Running only a full load is more energy-efficient, especially if you are using cold water. 

Even though my dryer is now fixed, there are some things I’ll do differently going forward. I think I’ll keep the clothesline use it for some items. Even if it saves just a little energy it will make an impact over time. And…my dryer will hopefully last longer too. Being pickier about what goes in the hamper will mean fewer loads and saving energy. 

2. Shop Second Hand First

By now you all know how much I love buying secondhand. Pictured here is my favorite thrift store, The Collection at Casa Teresa in Orange, CA. They have a $2 sale every Thursday and I rarely miss a week. But, if you don’t have time to hit a mid-week sale like this, you can still make secondhand your first choice.

  1. Shop eCommerce resale sites like Poshmark, Mercari, eBay, Kidizen, Depop, Thredup, etc. You can shop anytime and often negotiate prices.
  2. Larger thrift chains like Goodwill, Salvation Army, and Savers have a larger selection and have good weekend hours so those are great places to shop. In fact, now whenever my daughter asks to go shopping, her first choice is always a thrift store. 

This is one of my absolute favorite ways to make every day earth day!

3. Buy Less

Honestly, this is the thing that I probably struggle with the most. Because I LOVE shopping! That’s one of the reasons why I decided to have a reseller business because it’s a way for me to get paid to shop. There…I said it! But, in the last year or so of slowly and consciously working to transform my wardrobe, (see Part 1 and Part 2 of my Conscious Closet Cleanse Blog Posts) I’ve learned something. Now that I have a closet filled almost entirely with things that I love to wear, I don’t feel the need to buy as much. Because I can’t possibly wear it all. And, frankly having too many great clothes causes a bit of decision fatigue for me. I don’t need to spend more time trying to figure out what to wear. Having fewer items to choose from means I can spend less time worrying about what to wear and more time doing the things that I love to do.

4. Go For Quality

Clothes that are made better will last longer. That’s pretty much a no-brainer. Quality doesn’t necessarily mean buying the most expensive thing. But, before buying a new garment, as yourself:

  • How often will I wear this? (Think about cost per wear)
  • Are the seams sturdy?
  • Will this stand up to my lifestyle and activity level?
  • Do I see myself keeping this for years to come?

If you fill your closet with quality clothes that you love and wear, that means less clothing being produced by fast fashion brands that pollute the planet and exploit workers. For example, I never used to purchase sweaters made from quality fabrics like wool or cashmere. But, since I started shopping secondhand, I’ve been able to acquire some lovely quality sweaters that I plan on keeping for a very long time. 

These are just a few suggestions for ways to make every day earth day in how we can all be better stewards of the planet through a more conscious approach to the garments we buy and wear. For more tips, check out my Checklist for Building a Sustainable Wardrobe On a Budget.

Dressing for a Certain Age: Fashion Rules for “Older” Women

Dressing for a Certain Age: Fashion Rules for “Older” Women

Can a Woman Over 40 Wear Fishnets With Ripped Jeans?

Some people would answer the above question with an emphatic “NO!”  (My 14 year old daughter definitely thinks this is a no-no). There are rules for dressing for a certain age. I mean, all you have to do is go onto Pinterest and type in “outfit ideas” and it will automatically recommend things like “outfit ideas women over 40” or “outfit ideas women over 50” and so on. Have you ever actually clicked on any of those searches? 

YAWN!!!!

 

Well, I have my own “rules” if you can call them that. That’s the subject of my latest video. Just click below. 

Still Don’t Know What To Wear?

I get it, figuring out what to wear can be a challenge at any age. After a while we all get tired of wearing the same old outfits, no matter how cute they are. I’ve discovered a few tips and tricks to help freshen your wardrobe without spending any money. If you are looking for some ideas, check out my FREE guide with outfit inspiration ideas.

(ICYMI – You can find my last video blog HERE.) 

Are Resellers Ruining Thrift Stores?

Are Resellers Ruining Thrift Stores?

Are Resellers Contributing to The Gentrification of Thrift Stores?

There has been a lot of talk lately about the gentrification of thrift stores and the role that resellers play. In this video, I share a few of my thoughts on the matter and how resellers can source responsibly.

What are your thoughts on the matter? Drop me a comment and let me know what you think. I think it’s important to have an open and honest dialogue about this.

Also, for more discussion on conscious fashion, check out the book reviews of Fashionopolis and The Conscious Closet.

Conscious Closet Cleanse: Part II

Conscious Closet Cleanse: Part II

A Conscious Closet Cleanse Is A Work In Progress

About a month ago I wrote a post about my Conscious Closet Cleanse: Part I and went to work clearing out unwanted garments from my wardrobe. I really tried to challenge myself to consider whether or not I would EVER wear the things that were hanging in my closet. I thought I was being pretty ruthless. Today, I did a recount to compare what I had before to what I currently have. Conclusion: I am pathetic in my ability to ruthlessly cleanse my closet. See below for my “before” and “after” numbers.

I only reduced my closet contents by 18%!!!!! My goal was to reduce by 50% I knew this would be a process but I really felt like I had done much better than this. It probably didn’t help that I ADDED a blazer to the count! Oh, and I am not sure why I have one more skirt. I may have miscounted last time. 

I clearly have a problem!

BTW – I forgot to count shoes the first time around. So, that is why those numbers are not reflected here. But, in case you are wondering, the shoe count is currently as follows:

  • Boots = 4
  • Booties = 4
  • Flats = 8
  • Sandals = 6
  • Pumps = 1
  • Sneakers = 14
  • Oxfords = 3
  • Total = 40

The sneakers kind of makes sense to me. I have had multiple foot surgeries on my right foot and for a while, sneakers were all I could wear. So, I bought a lot of them. The pumps are a joke. I can’t wear them. They have no business being in my closet.

Based on all this, clearly, there will need to be a Part III blog post cuz I’ve got more work to do. If you are also trying to cleanse your closet of unwanted items, and struggling as I am, I think we can all take comfort in the fact that this is clearly something that takes time and patience. A conscious closet cleanse should be done carefully. Otherwise, it wouldn’t be very “conscious” would it?

The Eighteen Percent

What I can take some solace in is the fact that I was able to discard my unwanted clothes responsibly. Here is where it all went:

  • Clothes that were in good condition but not worth my time to try to sell individually went to Swap Society.
  • Items that were worn out or in bad shape were sent to either For Days or Universal Standard for recycling.
  • Items in good condition and worth resale value got listed on Poshmark, Mercari, Kidizen and Depop
  • Some random items went into a garage sale fundraiser we had to raise money for my daughter’s school trip to South Africa.

What Sold

Here are a few examples of what I was able to sell. At the top end, I got $20 for the Express jeans and at the low end I got about $7 for the pink Knox Rose top. It was part of a 3-item bundle of items that I honestly thought would sit in my closet for a long time. So, I was happy to make someone a deal!  I wasn’t expecting to make a ton of money, and I didn’t, but I’m happy anytime I can get a little money for my old unwanted clothes. 

What’s Next?

After I started writing this post, I shared with my family what my closet count was.

I thought my husband was going to fall over.

He’s always been a minimalist with his wardrobe. He doesn’t shop often but when he does get something new he tends to wear it until it wears out. No wonder he only needs one-fifth of the closet space that I do! I told him my commitment to reduce my closet by at least half so….now I HAVE to do it!

What Have I Learned?

There are a few takeaways from this experience that I hope can help you with your closet cleanout.

  1. Set a goal that is realistic for YOU: I set a goal to reduce my closet by at least half. That felt do-able enough for me. If I had said that I was going to reduce my closet by 95% I probably would have quit before I started. I needed to start with something that felt significant but do-able for me. Once I reach that goal. I will set a new one.
  2. It can be a marathon or a sprint: If you want to clean out your closet responsibly, it will take a little time to make sure the items you are rejecting don’t end up in a landfill. Give yourself some grace if you don’t reach your goal overnight. Go at a pace that works for you and lets you do this cleanse responsibly.
  3. Create accountability: I was embarrassed to tell my husband how many clothes I have. He can obviously see it all since we share a closet. Buy it was super cringy to say it to him out loud. So, whatever your own personal goal is, share it with someone else and ask them to check in on your progress.

If you’re on your own conscious closet journey, I hope that sharing my process is helpful for you. I am convinced that everyone can have a more conscious and more sustainable wardrobe with just a little bit of effort, and without spending a lot of money. If you’re interested in building a sustainable wardrobe on a budget, check out this FREE CHECKLIST

An Examination of Where Our Clothes Come From: Fashionopolis Book Review

An Examination of Where Our Clothes Come From: Fashionopolis Book Review

An Inside Look at the Clothing Industry

After I finished reading “The Conscious Closet” by Elizabeth L. Cline, I was hungry for more information about fashion and sustainability. (You can read my review of The Conscious Closet HERE). I have a whole list of books on my Goodreads that are under the “want to read” category. So, the next book I chose was Fashionopolis. Although I have been a fashion lover and avid shopper my whole life, it was only recently that I started to think about where our clothes come from. Who makes the clothes? How are the clothes made? I was blissfully ignorant of these facts for a long time. “Fashionopolis: Why What We Wear Matters” by Dana Thomas changed all that. 

 

Fashion’s Dirty Secret

Thomas is a storyteller and in Part I of the book she tells us stories that lay the groundwork, describing the conditions that have led to what the fashion industry is today. In 1980, 70% of the clothing Americans bought were made in the United States. Then, because of a series of trade deals, it became necessary to make clothes off-shore in order for brands to compete on price. When we buy a $10 shirt at Forever 21 or H&M, most of us don’t give much thought to just how they are able to sell a shirt so cheaply.

The #1 answer, cheap labor. With cheap labor comes awful working conditions that range from super sketchy to downright deadly. On April 23, 2013, the Rana Plaza building, in Bangladesh, collapsed, killing 1134 people and injuring 2500. It was the deadliest factory accidentally in modern history. Thomas tells the story of Rana Plaza through interviews with those who survived the disaster. Many who survived have suffered ongoing physical and mental injuries that have left them unable to work and care for their families. Thomas explains: 

“News stories on Rana Plaza were blunt and inescapable. The awareness campaigns that followed were vocal. Yet Americans didn’t change their apparel shopping habits. In 2013, they spent $340 billion on fashion – more than twice what they forked out for new cars. Much of it was produced in Bangladesh, some of it by Rana Plaza workers in the days leading up to the collapse.”

Thomas does such a great job of painting the picture of what the garment industry working conditions are really like, it becomes difficult to ignore it. We have an opportunity to buy more consciously so we can confidently say that our clothes were not made while others lost their lives. 

Dressing With Intention

I don’t mean for this to sound so doom and gloom. It can be overwhelming to try and think of what one person can do against a giant industry like the apparel industry. But, it all starts with becoming aware. Aware of the problem and some of the solutions. In part II of the book, we learn about reshoring – “the act of bringing back the manufacturing that went offshore during the post-NAFTA globalization boom.” In order to bring production back to the US, designers and manufacturers are being forced to innovate, to completely change what experts thought was possible when it comes to making fabric and sewing clothes. 

At times, I found it challenging to follow along with the industry jargon. But the stories in the book show us who makes our clothes and how they are made. I admit I knew 0% about how clothes are made on a mass scale. Just imagine that every time you shop now, you’re thinking about who made your clothes? Would you make different choices? I know I will. We can finally start to have a wardrobe that reflects our values. 

Feeling Good About Our Fashion

In the last section of the book, we learn about the ways in which shopping has changed. Did you know that it was projected that in 2017 a fourth of America’s remaining malls would shutter in five years? Malls were already a dying breed…then entered the pandemic (which of course, the book does not address since it was published in 2019). The good news that I find in these pages is that as consumers, we have SO MANY CHOICES now when it comes to where we shop and what we buy.

As Thomas points out, “Consumers now routinely and freely tell brands and retailers how they feel and what’s important to them: their emotions, their envies, their neuroses.” When we start to vote for the change we want to see with our dollars, brands have to sit up and take notice. We have choices: consignment, resale, swapping, shopping ethical, and/or sustainable brands. Reading a book like this has definitely empowered me to shop with more confidence and clarity. My preferred shopping method is second hand, whether it be resale or thrifting. But if/when I choose to get something new, there are a host of brands I know I can seek out. 

 

The 4 Biggest Mistakes I Made When I First Started Reselling

The 4 Biggest Mistakes I Made When I First Started Reselling

It Started as a Hobby

My reselling journey began back in the early aughts when eBay was new and the only game in town. I loved hitting local garage sales in Phoenix, where I was living at the time, and flipping my finds for a small profit. I had a very good full-time job so I didn’t need the money. It was just kinda fun and who doesn’t like a few extra bucks in their pocket each month? In 2019 I decided to try it again. This time, focussing almost exclusively on clothing. It was mostly a way to justify my new obsession – Thrift Shopping. After a while, I felt like I needed to justify the time I was spending. I was just making things up as I went along. It turns out, just like everything else, there is a skill to reselling. So, here I’m going to share about the biggest mistakes I made when I first started reselling.  

Haphazard Sourcing

When I first decided to try reselling, I was already a resale shopper. It felt like I hit the jackpot when I first discovered Poshmark and could buy brands that I loved at a fraction of the retail price. Before I was a seller, I was a buyer for 6 years. I decided to try selling because I was seeing so many great clothes at the thrift stores…more than I could ever wear or fit in my closet and I thought….someone would love this!

When I first started sourcing one of the biggest mistakes that I made was just buying stuff I thought was cute and not doing any research at all about the brand or the style. Big mistake! The #1 best way to make sales when you are a reseller is to source and sell items that people are actually looking for. Once I learned to research sold listings I could also see how much they sold for and whether or not my sourcing investment would be worth it. 

To check out some of my favorite tips, check out my Thrifting for Profit Blog Post

No Research

At first, I was too intimidated to research brands I found in the thrift store while I was there. I guess I didn’t want people to know I was a reseller. I’ve since gotten over that. Now, I go through the racks quickly, pull what I think is a quality or in-demand item, and then, I pull my cart or my basket over to a discreet corner of the store and I research each piece one at a time. This is an investment in time but worth it. I end up putting 80% of what I find back on the rack. Better to get a few good pieces than a ton of stuff that’s going to sit in my closet for a year. 

Bad Pictures

I have never been a photog! I really admire people who have this skill. But, I just don’t seem to have the eye for it. In fact, one of the very first items that I sold on Poshmark was a pair of brown CROCS that my husband didn’t want anymore. The picture was so bad that I got a 1 star review when they finally did sell. Why? Because in the picture they looked blue! I just wasn’t paying attention and didn’t really care to spend the time to try and get good photos. This was one of the biggest mistakes I made when I first started reselling! Truth be told, it’s a common mistake I see a low of new resellers making. So, if this is also your challenge, don’t feel bad! I had to do a lot of trial and error to get good pictures. I tried different locations around my house – the bedroom, the hallway, the living room floor, etc.

Eventually I found a dress form at an estate sale and used a curtain as a backdrop in my garage. When it was time to take pictures, I just opened up the garage door to let in natural light. (Always the best choice!) It’s also important to pay attention to the best time of day to take pictures (morning for me) and plan accordingly. 

This made a really big difference! How do I know? I decided to retake some pictures of items that were sitting in my closet for about a year. After re-taking the pictures and re-listing, these items sold in about a month. Take a look at these before & after pictures.  

Doing What Everyone Else Was Doing

There is a lot of information and misinformation out there when it comes to reselling. You can find endless YouTube videos and Instagram posts with people sharing their tips and tricks. The beauty of the Internet is that all the free information we’d ever need is right at our fingertips. However, be cautious about who you take advice from. This was one of the biggest mistakes I made when I first started reselling – not being choosy about whose advice I followed. I just assumed everyone knew more than I did. 

For example, I was in a reselling Facebook group and several people shared about how they run sales in their closets, using cute emojis to mark the items that were part of the sale. So I decided to try this. Bad idea. Why? Because it messes up the search-ability of the listing. Trust me, no one is searching for the garment they want with an emoji in the search field. But I saw SO. MANY. PEOPLE. doing this, that I thought it must be the way to go. After learning more about search-ability I removed all those emojis and started getting a lot more traction in my closet. 

What could you do with an extra $800 a month?

Again, one of the biggest mistakes I made when I first started reselling was following the crowd and not being careful where I got my reseller advice. Then I discovered Jen @abritishposher and her Poshmark Sales Accelerator course. What a game changer! Jen goes DEEP on the 5 pillars of poshing: Research, Sourcing, Listings, Driving Sales, and Systems. She has a proven track record of sales and has created a wonderful community of supportive resellers.

As a part-time seller I went from $197 in sales in January to over $1000 in October and still counting! I now make consistent daily sales. Consistent enough that I can actually factor the income into our family’s monthly budget to help pay for things like activities for our kids (our son is going to Sacramento in February and our daughter is going to South Africa in June!), contribute toward our health insurance (which is expensive when you are self-employed), and more! If you want to up your reseller game, make consistent sales, and extra income, check out the PSA course HERE

My Conscious Closet Cleanse: Part I

My Conscious Closet Cleanse: Part I

The Inspiration

I have been writing and sharing a lot lately about the book, The Conscious Closet by Elizabeth L. Cline. This book is so inspirational on so many levels. It has inspired me to do a cleanse of my closet and try to get to more of a “capsule wardrobe”. In case you’re not familiar, a capsule wardrobe is when you invest in just a few essential pieces that are classic and non-trendy that can be augmented with select seasonal and trendy pieces. A capsule wardrobe is MUCH smaller than a typical wardrobe. The idea is that when you have fewer pieces that you actually love and are of good quality, it all gets worn, and you spend less time standing in front of your closet figuring out what to wear.  

BTW, if you’d like some outfit inspiration ideas check out my free guide from this BLOG POST

The Challenge

I’ve decided to take on this challenge! I have NEVER been accused of having a minimalist wardrobe. But, to be honest most of the items currently in my closet go unworn. Either because they are from a time when I had to dress up for work (now I work from home) or there are items that don’t fit. After all, this is the year that I decided to stop weighing myself so there are a few pieces that used to be snug….that are just unwearable now. This is going to be a work in progress so this blog post will be part I of I-don’t-know-how-many posts until I get to that desired capsule wardrobe. So, sit back, relax, and join me in my conscious closet cleanse. 

The Count

I was procrastinating and dreading to do it, but it needed to be done. I needed to count how many clothes I had in my closet. So, here it is:

Pants = 13

Dresses & Rompers = 35

Skirts = 13

Shirts = 89

Blazers = 35

Jeans = 21

Cardigans = 30

Sweaters. & Sweatshirts = 13

Coats/Capes/Ponchos/Vests = 26

Total = 275

The number that I think I was the most shocked by was the shirt count of 89. 89!?!? I haven’t even counted my dresser drawers yet! And….I had already gone through and started to purge a few things before I did this count. Do I feel like I have 89 tops in my closet that I would be happy to wear on any given day?

NO!

One of the other numbers that is a huge problem is 35 dresses/rompers. For my current lifestyle I really don’t need that many. So, some of those are going to have to go.

Why am I not calling out the blazer count as a problem? I LOVE blazers. I consider jeans, a t-shirt, and a blazer my signature look. Unfortunately Southern California weather only allows me 3 seasons of that look. I am going to probably get rid of at least 2-3 that I have not worn in a long time. But most of them are staying put and I am okay with that. Here’s why – I can cut way back on the tops and jeans but throwing on a pop of color, pattern or texture with a blazer can instantly make that simple jeans and tee super interesting.

 

The Castoffs

So what to do with the castoffs? I have been exploring some new ways of disposing of my old clothes. There are now four categories the castoffs go into; Sell, Donate, Swap, Recycle.

Sell: Anything that has resale value obviously goes up on Poshmark and Mercari to sell. I don’t worry about making a huge profit on those pieces so I try to price them to move.

Donate: Anything that is in good condition but not worth the effort of trying to sell, gets donated.

Swap: I recently signed up for a membership with Swap Society. You sign up for a fee and earn points that you can use to “swap” clothes. When you send in your old items they will assign a point value as well. You use these points to shop on their website. There is also a small fee for each transaction. It’s probably not the most cost-effective way to swap but since organizing a large clothing swap isn’t in the cards due to the pandemic, I thought I would give this a try. I’ll share more about my experience after I have a chance to have the full experience with shopping with them.

Recycle: I found a couple of other websites that will, for a small fee, send you a bag to fill up with your not-so-great old clothes and they will recycle them. Did you know that only 1% of clothing is recycled in the truest sense of the word? Companies like For Days and Universal Standard are trying to change that. This is a good option for clothes that aren’t really usable. For example, my daughter had several t-shirts with paint stains (because she never listens to me to cover up her clothes when she paints!) and these are clearly not going to be desirable by anyone. So, they are good contenders for recycling. Some of my son’s old worn-out pajamas fall into this category as well.

 

What’s Next

It’s clear that this is going to be a process for me. Gutting my wardrobe isn’t something that I think I can do in a single day or weekend. But instead, something that happens over a slightly longer period of time. But, not too much longer. I just finished watching the documentary “Minimalism” on Netflix and it’s given me a little extra boost of inspiration to be more aggressive with my conscious closet cleanse schedule.

I’m still not sure what a realistic goal is in terms of the number of items I want to end up with and by when. With 275 total items today I know I can cut it at least in half. That’s my comfortable goal. But, I am going to try for 100 or less. Which still sounds like a lot, doesn’t it!? Like I said, it’s a process. The reason I am not assigning a time goal is that I want to discard things responsibly, and that takes a little more time. Sure, I could just put all the unwanted stuff in garbage bags and drop it off at the local Goodwill but that would not make my cleanse very conscious, since often stores like Goodwill will ship unwanted items offshore, only to fill landfills in foreign countries. 

I’ll check back in with my conscious closet cleanse Part II in a couple of weeks or so. I’ll give an update on my wardrobe count and how it’s going overall. So stay tuned!

BTW – If you’re interested in some ways to create a more conscious wardrobe on a budget, check out this FREE CHECKLIST for Building a Sustainable Wardrobe on a Budget